Photo Courtesy of Joseph Sohm/Visions of America/Corbis |
Monica McNeal, mother of 19-year-old Lance Corporal Eric Ward Died in Afghanistian, Feb. 21. 2010 Photo Courtesy Jason Reed/Reuters |
Let us never forget that each courageous fallen hero left behind a family: parents, siblings, wife or girlfriend, children.. For each survivor, Memorial Day is not a one-day event, a day off from work, cooking burgers and hot dogs on the backyard grill. It's something they live through every day of their lives: a young child who never met his daddy; a little girl who will never walk down the aisle with her father on her wedding day; a wife who somehow must live on, raise their kids and fights to keep his memory alive; a mother who still remembers bringing him home from the hospital, his first day of school, the last time she saw him, and struggles to get through each of his birthdays for the remainder of her life... Reuters published a photo (above) taken last Thursday of the grieving mother of a proud, fourth-generation Marine. I wouldn't say that I know a number of these families personally, although I do remember being friends with an Army brat, a die-hard Green Bay Packers fan, before his dad died in Vietnam. There's a good article in today's Chicago Tribune by Bonnie Rubin, which does a better job than I can about how these Gold Star families cope with their loss and what we can do to help them and honor the memory of their loved ones.
There are some organizations which provide emotional support for these Gold Star families (e.g., click here), but one way interested people can choose to assist our active-duty military families is through organizations like Operation Homefront and the National Military Family Association. For a more comprehensive listing of military-related charities and organizations, click here.
Quote of the Day
It is only by following your deepest instinct
that you can lead a rich life,
and if you let your fear of consequence prevent you
from following your deepest instinct,
then your life will be safe, expedient and thin.
Katharine Butler Hathaway
The Mojave Cross Revisited:
Censorship of Public Displays
Intolerance of Religious Symbols
The decades-old Mojave Cross as originally displayed |
The boxed cross during court hearings |
Remaining bolts on Sunrise Rock from the original location of the cross |
The Mojave cross was originally erected about 75 years ago by a military veteran group (i.e., not a Christian group) seeking to honor fallen WWI war heroes. Anti-memorial bigots have torn down, on multiple occasions, the original 8 foot cross and its replacements. In 1994 the land in question was put under the jurisdiction of the National Park Service. In 2001, a former NPS employee, Frank Buono, a Roman Catholic, filed suit on church-state grounds against the memorial, winning key battles. Congress in 2003, in an attempt to preempt the issue, then attempted to swap the relevant acre of land, enveloping Sunrise Rock, to the Veterans of Foreign Wars in exchange for a 5-acre tract from the Sandoz family bordering the preserve.
The cross, since the early court challenges, had been boxed with plywood (see above photo) to placate anti-memorial activists. Within days of the landmark ruling, which among other things suggested that the reversed lower court reconsider its position on the land swap, the cross was stolen. An attempt to replace the cross was brought down by the "get-a-life" government on the grounds it was a replica and not the original boxed cross.
There are opponents whom point out that the Vietnam Memorial does not use religious symbols or whom oppose the use of a Christian symbol in the context of war. I'm not interested in the judgmental, morally self-superior rationalizations of others, believing as self-appointed judges and experts, they have the right to set the rules of what constitutes an acceptable memorial. This was erected by a secular group of veterans not affiliated with any Christian church; they don't have a hidden agenda of converting people from non-Christian faiths. What they wanted to do is to remind people, through the use of a single, powerful symbol, that the liberties we Americans have come to take for granted were bought and paid for by the lives and limbs of hundreds of thousands whom have paid the ultimate sacrifice. Taking down the Latin cross is no victory for religious equality: it takes away one of the few monuments of common sacrifice in the history of our nation.
Political Cartoon
Nate Beeler reminds us that the ones we Americans are most indebted to aren't the Chinese, the Japanese or other (including domestic) purchasers of Treasury bills but the hundreds of thousands brave American men whom have sacrificed their very lives to win and sustain our way of life.
Musical Interlude: The AFI Music Top 100 (continued)
#61, "Get Happy"
#62. "Beauty and the Beast"
#63. "Thanks for the Memory"
#64. "My Favorite Things" one of my favorite things about the best movie of all time!